She comes twice a day, ring the bell (regardless of whether the door is closed or open), takes off her shoes and enter the house addressing my mum, āDidi hum aa gaye!ā (regardless of whether my mom is listening to her or not), does her work, finishes theĀ small glass of tea and two biscuits/rusks served to her, and then leave the house addressing my mum again,ā Didi hum jaa rahe hain!ā (Regardless of whether my mum is listening or not).
One day I interrupted and asked her why she is addressing my mum whenever she enters or leaves the house. Her response, āTo ensure that I am entering and exiting your house with your consent- being on the safe side from any questionable finger, because it is very easy to push the needy or a deprived person into the pit of suspicion and blames.ā
I tried to assure her saying that “Itās been years that you’ve been working for us and we trust you. You have seen us grow. Your fear cannot happen in our house.” Ā She nodded her head in agreement andĀ shared one of her many bitter life experiences.
A week ago her small grandson was seriously ill,Ā and was admitted to a hospital. But the doctor refused to continue with his treatment until they could fully pay the hospital fee (Rs.1000). She didnāt have enough money and soĀ she sent her young daughter to one family that she has served forĀ 16 years and trusted the most.
The girl knocked and waited for someone to open the door for 2 hours, however, no one is opening and she only heard the people whispering from inside. So she left hopeless and with heavy heart.
They were forced to leave the hospital with the patient as they were not able to arrange the fee. The next day, when Aunty went to the same house asking for anĀ answer, they lied and Ā blamed her daughter saying that she didn’t go thereĀ and that she must have gone somewhere else.
AuntyĀ was highly disappointed with their excuse. It was a matter of rs.1000 only. She was also asked to leave her work and get lost! Her 16 years of dedication, hard work, honesty, and prestige was all gone for Rs.1000. Ā Thankfully, his grandson was able to recoverĀ and she got a helping hand from someoneĀ else. But she learned a lesson for her life, she stated.
We very often become ignorant towards the people who serve as our backbone. They work to make our life easy, but we sometimes take them for granted. We just forget that they are human too, with beating heart and working brain, and also get hurt with our inhuman behavior.
We donāt bother to share their sorrow, their pain, believing they donāt have these emotions. Why? Because we are paying them? But they are paying us back with their hard work and dedication to make our life smooth and easy, despite the challenges that they face every day.
I felt happyĀ when Aunty told me this: Ā āI feel good when someone calls me Aunty, or addresses me withĀ words like āAapā, or whenever someone bothers to ask about how my family is doing?ā
Sometimes it is very easy to make someone feel happy about their life, by just simple human gestures or little acts of kindnessĀ (which often doĀ not cost us anything). Sadly, I have noticed is very hard to practice these days.
Show concern, affection, and respect towards the people who are working day-night for you. It will fuel them to do their duty with more energy, love, and dignity which is their equal right.
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My happiness story is more good news, than a story!
I recently found out I’m going to be a grandmother and I’m totally happy!
At first I was a little sad, because I felt my son was too young. With that being said, all I can think about is getting ready for our new addition!!! My heart is melting already.
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Happiness resides in the smallest things. Here’s a poem about one of my favorite childhood memories – eating Goldfish from a cup with my mom:
Goldfish In A Cup A plastic cup in cartoon clothes Holds goldfish to the brim Mom picks one from the top and makes it fly Airplane noises and spitting engines Land the cracker on my tongue
I pick another from the cup And make it fly, just as well As high as my arm can reach Mom bends down and guides my hand So I can make fish fly for her, as she did for me
Mom picks me up and I fly Instinctually, I spread my wings She tells me one day I will fly on my own So I remind her people canāt fly Youāre right, my love, people canāt fly, she sings
But you, you are not people You are single, you are unique You are my gold fish in a sea of green And you will fly, my love Just you wait and see
Thank you KavaraStories for inspiring us withĀ your happy childhood story. š
I remember this one time when we’re on the road…
My hubby was driving and I was at the backseat with my daughter. When it’s only the 3 of us, I like staying at the backseat with my little girl so that I could touch her and look at her when we chat.
Like always, she talks a lot. She talks about the things that she sees around, she talks about the billboards that she sees along the way, and whatever things that cross her mind.
When she gets tired, she lays her head on my arms or lap. One time she did that, I kissed her head. And then she said, “Mommy, thank you for kissing me.”
That moment is one of the happiest moments in my life- knowing that my daughter appreciates how I show my love and care for her. I still get a little emotional sometimes whenever I remember that incident.
How many of us take the time to say “Thank You” for the love and care that we get from family, friends, or colleagues? Sometimes, it is easy to forget- especially if it is “expected” of them or when “we’re used to” being treated as such.
But you know what, it’s a wonderful feeling to be thanked and appreciated. š
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Have a great weekend everyone! Remember to bond with people today, and not with technology!
I am delighted to share with you today a happy story from one of my favorite bloggers, Jennie. I hope that you will enjoy her story as much as I did!
Thank you Jennie for sharing us a piece of your happiness thru your true to life magical story! š
Each year I host a party for children and their families, and every year it creates magicā not the storybook or pretend magic, but something very real.
Families gather with their children when school closes and have a pizza party on the playground.Ā That event alone is incredibly exciting for young children.Ā This year the weather was warm for New England, approaching 70 degrees.Ā It was also foggy.Ā Perfect for what was about to happen!
We carved pumpkins into Jack-O-Lanterns.Ā That took quite a while; plenty of time for families to get to know each other, and plenty of time for each child and family to spend time together, doing something really fun.Ā Yet, it was far more than fun.
Darkness descended and transformed carving pumpkins into another world of wonder and splendor.Ā Imagine what it must be like for a child to be at school in the dark.Ā When we stopped to look at all the Jack-O-Lanterns, everyone felt a great shift to somethingmagical.Ā This is what I wrote to families:
Tonight was a magical evening.Ā Pizza dinner at school is pretty cool; yet carving a pumpkin with your family is a memory builder.Ā We so enjoyed all the activity and excitement with each family.Ā As the sun was setting, arranging all the jack-o-lanterns on the stone wall was filled with anticipation.Ā Sitting together in a circle with our jack-o-lanterns and singing songs, as it became dark, wasā¦ perfect.Ā Truly, it was a moment in time, the kind that leaves you with a feeling deep in your chest, yet you cannot find words to explain it.Ā You just know that it is special.Ā Often it is the little moments that are the most important and the best of all.Ā Thank you for being there.
We gathered all together in a big circle.Ā Jack-O-Lanterns were lit.Ā Children were snuggled with their families.Ā We sang the Jack-O-Lantern song, twice.Ā The excitement of the singing the song in the dark was magical, indeed.
Yes, it was a moment that leaves you with a feeling deep in your chest, one that is difficult to explain, yet you know is special.Ā It is magic!
Jennie
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Last Friday, our lead trainer at the officeĀ sent out a random exercise to help improve our vocabulary. The task was to describe 3 teammates using given alternative words to replace the common adjectives that we use.
I was surprised that someone chose to describe me, and I am happy and grateful to what he or she has written about me.
I am very glad that I was able to affect someone and that they notice me in a positive way. I just do what I knowĀ is right without thinking how other people might judge me.
The truth is, we always have audience around us. And we always have opportunity to inspire and build them, or dishearten and discourage them.
In all honesty, if others are toĀ describe you now (whether at home, or in your workplace, or with friends), do you think you will like what they’ll say about you? š
Our sharer today is a good buddy of mine from PBIY (Project Believe In Yourself). I actually asked him to share after watching Ā his YouTube video. I hope that you’ll find inspiration from his story. š
Thank you Benjamin for sharing with us your story. I wish only the best for your projects!Ā
Hey Champs! Hope youāre doing good!
This will be a summarized story, of my experience in aĀ relationship of 6 yearsĀ (4 officially, with 2 years of friendship before getting together) with my ex-gf, whoās also my first love (I was hers too, aww aināt that sweet? XD) and before I go on,Ā I just want to make one thing clear:
Things may have ended badly between us but I sincerely, wholeheartedly, do not hate her for leaving me and making me go through the things I did. Not anymore.
Some of you may think Iām a dumbass for this (Hell, even I do think that I am lol!) but instead of hating her, I actually feel gratitude towards her.
Why? Simply because she taught and showed me the concept of love (Romantically) and even whatās it like to be truly in love with someone.
She taught me what love can be in the form of affection and attention which youād only see in TV, movies and fairy tales.
She even gave me the experiences which Iāve never known anyone to have gone through before as well. Needless to say, I know I did the same for her.
We shared lots of moments when we told each other we couldnāt believe weāre actually together. Btw, it was a Long Distance Relationship. Iām from Asia and she’s from Europe. Anyway-
We both had our good and bad sides but if you take away the fights we had?
We were perfect for each other like literally, we shared so many common interests, perspectives in life, moral stands and we both even shared the same idea of only having just one partner in life and then getting together and settling down.
Just be each otherās only one. How sweet was that, right? š
When we were both together, in the years back then- Yes, we may have fights and all but seriously, which couple donāt fight?
Besides, I had some of the happiest days in my life and that statement stays true even today. So I just want you, or her, if she has somehow managed to find this article- to know that I donāt hate her no more. I used to but not anymore. Instead-
I love her for the time and love sheās given me during the years we were together. I loved giving her all my affection, time and efforts in making her feel like the happiest girl alive.
I wholeheartedly love all the lessons and adventures weāve been through together.
They were fantabulous. I thank her for taking up my offer to come into my world when I told her to (I didnāt ask her to be my gf then, I told her to be and she said yes lol! Isnāt she an amazing gal? XD- P.S. Iām amazing for suggesting it too).
It was an absolutely magical carpet ride- A whole new world for us both and like in a Disney movie, truly out of the world. (Got the reference? High-5!)
Our life experiences together were one of a kind. (Which Iām sure, you and your special one is too)
Funny thing is, thereās this song by Green Day (One of my FAVORITE Rock Band) which Iāve always loved the melody to but never truly understood the lyrics nor why Billie Joe (The Vocalist) was so teared up while playing this song live (In the show I saw on video)-Ā Until Iāve experienced my own break up and accidentally playing it while going through my old song library on iTunes and let it play till it finished.
Iāve always enjoyed the song with a smile because of the melody while listening but this time, something else happened.
It got me tearing up like Billie Joe. The melody and lyrics hit me hard like a train, pulling all sorts of emotions out of me as I started reliving the beautiful past that I know, will never ever come back nor be reliving ever again.
You mightāve heard of this one as well. Itās called āGood Riddance (Time of Your Life)ā.
This song to me,Ā its mainly written over the loss of a lover in your life.
Billie Joe wrote it during the period when his girlfriend at the time was leaving him but when we really look at the lyrics, somehow you see that it’s about life in general and everything that’s in it. Not just relationships.
When I heard the song after the fateful break up, thatās when I realize that this song is filled with lines of everlasting wisdom.
āAnother turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by theĀ wrist, directs you where to go.”
There will be times when we reach aĀ point in our life where weāre stuck- like a fork in the road, unsure where to go nor what to do next. This might also be the moment when you just stay stuck until time drags you alongĀ somewhere.Ā You are not alone, we all go through this one, champ.Ā Stay strong.
āSo make the best of this test and don’t ask why.”
Iām sure you can relate already. When we go through an extremely dark period of our life, we often ask ourselves and everyone around us, perhaps even God “Why did this happen? Why is this happening to me?”
But we never get the answer becauseĀ āIt’s not a question but a lesson learned in time.ā
There are things in life which weāll only get the answers to as we live and gain experience with time. When something like this happens, we donāt askĀ āWhy” but just learn from it because theĀ knowledge we gain from it will be for life and it can be used for a bigger purpose such asĀ changing someone elseās life for the better. But ultimately, we must never forget that it can be used to change our own life for the better.
“So take the photographs and still frames in your mind, hang it on a shelf in good health and good time.” āTattoos of memories andĀ dead skin on trial. For what itās worth, it was worth all the while.”
What Iāve been saying. Memories are something we need to hold onto not only because they are precious moments of your life, but also because they can get you through a lot of things in life and make you realize thatĀ āFor what it’s worth it was worth all the while.ā
Youāve gained so much from them and they are forever yours to keep and reflect upon whenever you need or wish to!
In the end, life itselfĀ āItās something unpredictable but in the end is right.”
There are times when we can control it, there times we canāt. In the end, no matter what happens, itāll be alright. After the curtain falls, when everything is all over?
“I hope you had the time of your life.”
We all had fun, weāve suffered through thick and thin together, conquering obstacles and life challenges that came our way and it all ends here and I want you to know now- Iāve had the time of my life doing all those things, experiencing life with you.
So again, thank you, my dear ex-sweetheart. Iām honestly writing this with a smile (Albeit, a bitter sweet feeling in my heart!). If you are reading this, I want you to know that I will never forget you. And I hope you had the time of your life with me and are still having a blast in life right now š
If you have recently gone through a heartbreak yourself, or are still trying to get over someone or seeking closure- Understand that you will only find peace after youāre able to see a life ahead without the person whoās leaving you or have left you, being a part of it.
Seems impossible but know that life isnāt over with this person gone. In fact, itās just the beginning!
I know (SHE was MY LIFEĀ so yeah, I know lol!), itās hard to see and envision a future like that but in time, andĀ withĀ SUPPORT– You will be walking on the path towards your next chapter in life and it WILL be a brighter and happier chapter inĀ your life’s storyĀ š
I was there. I had so much negative feelings towards her back then when the breakup happened. I hated her then.
But when I realized that the reason to why I hated her so much- Was because I loved her so much? I started asking myself if Iām being fair to her and myself? Was I being fair to our relationship?
Why did I choose to take away all the beautiful moments we shared together?
Just because sheās leaving, Iām going to convince myself to live my life as if weāve never met and the past which weāve spent our lives together- It neverĀ happened? And I didnāt learn nor gain anything from it?
Well I can do that-Ā IT WAS what I was doing, which obviously isnāt very healthy for me lol.
OR-
I can instead,Ā cherish everything that we did. Everything that we had.
Everything we gave to each other and accept the fact that even though we wonāt be getting anything more from each other,Ā we will forever be keeping whatever weāve given to each other. She gave me all her love just as how I gave her all of mine.
She may be gone and will not be giving any more butĀ it’s okay.Ā It’s okay.
Just like how my friends’ and families’ love that’s being invested in me, her love and mine? It’s all in both our hearts and memories now. And really,Ā that’s okay.
I actually thought of burning all the letters etc sheās given me (Quite a number. LDR, remember?) but in the end, I decided not to because she was a part of my life. I loved that part of my life. I loved her. So much. Okay tearing up lol but itās all good my friend.
Itās just the moment. Who knows? Perhaps one day I might really have to burn it all because IĀ need to make space for more letters or something in future lol!
Thereās so much more into the story but I shall end it here. I sincerely hope youāve enjoyed reading this and actually learned something from it!
Seriously, I hate you and Nina for making me go through this walk down memory laneĀ (Lol just kidding haha!) but I think stories like this- Itās good for the soul. Both yours and mine š
Okay so before I get going, I just wanna say that if youāre currently going through a difficult time in your life and feel that you need someone to talk to?
You can always email me viaĀ doubleyourpresence@gmail.comĀ and share it with me.
Iād love to listen to what you have to talk about.
As I recently started telling ppl on WP these days āListening, can do wonders for a damaged soul. Even heal them.ā So share if you feel the need to!
Weāre a new community thatās aiming bring the beautiful side of the human spirit to the world and weād love to have you join us if you do share our mission and vision of a better worldĀ š
