Hello Everyone!
Here is another story of what a little act of kindness can do to a person. š
Thank you Tanvi for sharing with us your beautiful conversation with your maid. It is truly a good reminder to be kind to people in all walks of life.
Sharer: Tanvi
Website: tanvi10mishra
POOJA AUNTY! She is our maid.
She comes twice a day, ring the bell (regardless of whether the door is closed or open), takes off her shoes and enter the house addressing my mum, āDidi hum aa gaye!ā (regardless of whether my mom is listening to her or not), does her work, finishes theĀ small glass of tea and two biscuits/rusks served to her, and then leave the house addressing my mum again,ā Didi hum jaa rahe hain!ā (Regardless of whether my mum is listening or not).
One day I interrupted and asked her why she is addressing my mum whenever she enters or leaves the house. Her response, āTo ensure that I am entering and exiting your house with your consent- being on the safe side from any questionable finger, because it is very easy to push the needy or a deprived person into the pit of suspicion and blames.ā
I tried to assure her saying that “Itās been years that you’ve been working for us and we trust you. You have seen us grow. Your fear cannot happen in our house.” Ā She nodded her head in agreement andĀ shared one of her many bitter life experiences.
A week ago her small grandson was seriously ill,Ā and was admitted to a hospital. But the doctor refused to continue with his treatment until they could fully pay the hospital fee (Rs.1000). She didnāt have enough money and soĀ she sent her young daughter to one family that she has served forĀ 16 years and trusted the most.
The girl knocked and waited for someone to open the door for 2 hours, however, no one is opening and she only heard the people whispering from inside. So she left hopeless and with heavy heart.
They were forced to leave the hospital with the patient as they were not able to arrange the fee. The next day, when Aunty went to the same house asking for anĀ answer, they lied and Ā blamed her daughter saying that she didn’t go thereĀ and that she must have gone somewhere else.
AuntyĀ was highly disappointed with their excuse. It was a matter of rs.1000 only. She was also asked to leave her work and get lost! Her 16 years of dedication, hard work, honesty, and prestige was all gone for Rs.1000. Ā Thankfully, his grandson was able to recoverĀ and she got a helping hand from someoneĀ else. But she learned a lesson for her life, she stated.
We very often become ignorant towards the people who serve as our backbone. They work to make our life easy, but we sometimes take them for granted. We just forget that they are human too, with beating heart and working brain, and also get hurt with our inhuman behavior.
We donāt bother to share their sorrow, their pain, believing they donāt have these emotions. Why? Because we are paying them? But they are paying us back with their hard work and dedication to make our life smooth and easy, despite the challenges that they face every day.
I felt happyĀ when Aunty told me this: Ā āI feel good when someone calls me Aunty, or addresses me withĀ words like āAapā, or whenever someone bothers to ask about how my family is doing?ā
Sometimes it is very easy to make someone feel happy about their life, by just simple human gestures or little acts of kindnessĀ (which often doĀ not cost us anything). Sadly, I have noticed is very hard to practice these days.
Show concern, affection, and respect towards the people who are working day-night for you. It will fuel them to do their duty with more energy, love, and dignity which is their equal right.
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Kindness is priceless is something to be given to everyone. š
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So true Debbie! I hope you have a happy weekend! š
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Thanks Nina! Wishing you and your family a happy weekend too!! š
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Thank you so much Nina! For sharing my article here…It means a lot to me! You’re such a generous person! Love and lots of wishes!
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It’s my pleasure Tanvi! Thank you for sharing your story to us! š
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An important lesson.
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It is indeed Jennie. Happy Easter! š
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Same to you, Nina!
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Thank you for this lovely share with such a beautiful message attached from you at the end. Kindness is all that should matter, isn’t it? And not to be demanding or to look down on those who serve us.
A lovely post Nina ššš
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Thank you Di! The last paragraph is still from the sharer, Tanvi. š
I agree with you- we should not look down on people. Who knows, in the future we might be the one in need of their help!
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Nina, are my new comments showing? I was in a different window but they don’t appear!! š¤
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Yes, I’ve read your comment on this post and on the other one. š
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It’s funny because I replied to your comment about the last words not being yours but it disappeared as I pressed Reply I thought… perhaps not. Thank you for letting me know it arrived š¹
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Yes, it does that sometimes…šš
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Oh I thought they were your additions. Sorry Nina. But I know you would have said the same things anyway. We are all equal and worthy of love.
Thank you for your reply šš
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No problem Di! Yes, I was thinking the same…š Thank you for reading and for sharing your insight Di. I appreciate it!
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You’re very welcome Nina š
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Oh I didn’t realise. Sorry Nina.
I know you would have thought it… and we are all equal and worthy of love.
Have a great day šš
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What a shame to hear of someone being treated in this way. I am relieved that she is treated with dignity and respect elsewhere.
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I agree Brigid…If people couldn’t help financially, at least they could offer emotional support… It’s just sad and mean how they were treated…
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Bad Karma…
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Mahatma Gandhi once said , Be Kind whenever possible, it is always possible .. Thank you for the lesson
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I agree…it is always up to us! š Thank you for sharing the quote! It’s a great one…
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