I would define CHILDREN as the happiest creatures in the world. Oh, don’t you just envy their enthusiasm and high-spirits!
In my pondering, I realize that there are really some great things that we can learn from them- the actual simple reasons why they are always happy.
Here we go…
#1: Children love unconditionally.
They don’t have any hidden motives or agenda. They don’t say “I love you IF you are…”, or “I love you WHEN you…”…they just simply love for the mere fact of loving someone.
I remember one time when my daughter, Gaby told me that she loves me. I asked her why and I was astonished with her response: “Because I am happy with you.” My heart just melts with joy every time I remember that.
#2: Children apologize and forgive easily.
Unlike adults, children don’t hold grudges. They get angry and fight, but they make up easily and then forget about what happened– as if it never happened at all. There’s no wonder why most adults are bitter– ’cause we usually fool ourselves by forgiving but not forgetting.
#3: Children live in the present moment.
They don’t worry about tomorrow, nor dwell in the past. They are enjoying living the PRESENT! On the contrary, most adults can’t let go of their past experiences and they are always busy planning about the future and they missed out the opportunities that the present hold.
#4: Children don’t complicate things.
Things are simple for them. There are no “gray areas”. They only know the Right & Wrong. and the Good & Bad– not the “somewhat right” or “wrong only if…”
#5: They laugh their hearts out and they have fun a lot!
#6: They are easily pleased and find joy in simple things.
Just compare the response that you get when you give a candy or ice cream to a child and to an adult. 🙂
#7: They don’t lie about how they feel.
Children let you know when they are upset or happy. They do not hide their emotions. Now when you ask an adult if there is something wrong, what is the common response? Most often than not, they say “I’m Fine” even if they’re not. So the negative emotions or feelings dwells in their hearts until the time when they would just explode!
#8: Children love being hugged and kissed a lot; and they are generous in giving hugs and kisses!
#9: Children are curious and loves to learn new things.
It boosts their self-esteem when they get to learn something, and this gives them happiness. Unfortunately, most adults have the tendency to become complacent and idle.
#10: Children know what they like and they don’t like.
If you ask a child what he or she wants, you get an answer right away… why is it that when we ask ourselves what we want, it is as if we’re answering a trigonometry equation?
Now, who says only adults can teach? 🙂
(Photo Credits: cliparts.co, parentingwithunderstanding.com)
Date Written: May 26, 2016
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nice blog…when people grow up they kill the child inside them..but growing up is different..the child inside you should never die..nice post..
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Thanks…yes, sometimes we need to let go of all the worries in the world and be carefree for a while…just take a time to enjoy and do the things that we love. =)
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My wife and I are co-parenting our two granddaughters, six and three. We’re “in school” with them five days a week. We are both LEARNING a lot
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That’s really nice. Being around children a lot makes us young at heart =)
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And old in the bones, sometimes. Trying to keep up with them and their limitless energy and enthusiasm.
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I’m sure your grand kids are loving you more for keeping up with that! …that is how they will remember you when they grow up! 🙂
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Appreciate your comment! 🙂
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What a great post! No wonder most adults wish they could be kids again ! 🙂
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Thank you! 😊 yes, it feels nice to be child-like sometimes ☺
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Very well said, Nina!
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Thank you Jennie! I appreciate the reblog ☺
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My pleasure!
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Reblogged this on A Teacher's Reflections and commented:
Thank you, Nina, for your pearls of wisdom and seeing things through the eyes of a child.
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Thank you Jennie! ☺
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You are welcome! I had reblog a post that speaks my words.
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So true! I suppose that’s why I’ve enjoyed caring for kids as a Nanny.
I’m often blown away when I view things from a child’s perspective…. it keeps you on your toes 🙂
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Thank you! Yes are right! 😊 (and it keeps you young being around children!)
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Several great points here. I love the enthusiasm and energy of children. I am glad that I get to work with them. I also have a lot of fun being in the classroom. Wonderful post!
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Thank you! I agree with you! Children could get rowdy at times, but they are definitely so much fun to be with! 🙂
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I don’t think this needs words of Introduction. Maybe, ‘Forgotten Gems?’ 🙂
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Well written, Nina! Happy to know You! Love and Regards. 🙂
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Thank you! I’m glad to meet you too! 😊 I appreciate you sharing my post.
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Their innocence is so amazing to watch. You are correct in saying we adults can learn a lot from them. Great post 🙂
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I love how they are happy all the time. Even in the hard situations, they don’t take it as grownups do. I really gives me straight in hard moments in life.
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