Today, I want to share with you 2 great life lessons that I personally believe would make a difference in the way we view life and the world around us, IF only we live by them.
Lesson #1: FORGIVE YOURSELF AND FORGIVE OTHERS
“Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say sorry, and an even stronger person to forgive.”- Anonymous
Forgive yourself for the wrong choices and decisions you’ve made, for not being good enough, for not being open, for not trying harder, for not reaching out. Forgive yourself for your failures and for the things that you did not do.
Forgive others for hurting you, for not appreciating you, for taking advantage of you, and for the wrong things done to you.
Not many people realize that when we forgive, we do ourselves favor. Forgiveness liberates us from the negative emotions that consume us. It frees us from anger, hatred and regrets. Forgiveness gives us peace and enables us to move forward.
Lesson #2: SEEK SIGNIFICANCE, NOT MATERIAL WEALTH
“Do the things that come from the heart. When you do, you won’t be dissatisfied…”– Mitch Albom, Tuesdays with Morrie.
When we die, we cannot bring our wealth with us. Our fame will eventually be forgotten. Our achievements will soon mean nothing. But what we will be remembered for are the things that we did to and for other people. How we made them feel. How we gave a part of ourselves to them.
So invest in people. Share your time. Be concern and compassionate. Nourish and dig deeper your relationships with your friends and family. Make it your purpose to share what you can give to the people around you.
I have not experienced dying, but I know that I would go happy and peacefully when I will have people who loves me in my deathbed. I would not trade that to any treasure in the world.
Choose LOVE over hate.
Choose KINDNESS over greed.
Choose FORGIVENESS over hatred.
Choose to be HAPPY by making the world around you happy. 🙂
Date Written: June 16, 2016
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Absolutely right! Thank you for this post. This is how I try my best to live, and I hope others who read this post choose to do the same. -Jennie-
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Thank you Jennie! This is also how I want to live… the older I get, the more I value people. =)
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Beautiful!!! I completely agree with the Lesson 1. We must forgive everyone including ourselves. Sometimes we feel so incomplete and anxious, the reason is we forgot to forgive our-self..
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True…we feel a sense of “lightness” as if we have unloaded a heavy burden within us when we forgive. Thank you Aki for sharing your insight! =)
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Such important life lessons aren’t they Nina. And the older we get the more we appreciate what’s really important in our life. People, love, compassion, purpose, forgiveness … Lovely post.
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They sure are, Miriam! I agree…what truly matters in life are those that money cannot buy- but the ones that you have mentioned. I am grateful for your comment! =)
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It’s my pleasure Nina.
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Forgiveness is so multi-faceted. It seems like a lifetime journey.
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Yes, forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do. But that’s what makes it special and a gift. It is a gift because we give it freely even to those undeserving of it. ☺
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I found your blog through the Meet and Greet this weekend. It’s so true – forgiveness has healing qualities in our life, and in the lives of others. I used to be better at it. Once I turned 50, for some reason, I am not as resilient in this area. I enjoy your blog and positive outlook. Keep up the good work! Have a great weekend. http://www.dianeweidenbenner.com
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Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog and I’m very grateful for your remarks! I went to check your blog too and I admire it. =)
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Great post!
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Thank you Jay!😊
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I really like and agree with this. Collect memories and experiences not things. I am going to re-blog this.
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I’m glad that you like my post! 😊 thank you for the re-blog. I appreciate it!
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I did and you are welcome.
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