I want to share with you 4 key points that I have learned in order to live a happier life. Believe me when I say that I am still trying my very best to adapt these everyday, and sometimes I fail, but what’s important is I don’t stop trying =)
“I’m okay with what I ultimately can’t do, because there is so much that I can do.”-Sam Berns
It’s our automatic response to make excuses when we are afraid to fail at something that we really want to achieve in life. We can come up with all the reasons that hinders us from doing what needs to be done. But we need to be bigger than our limitations! We should focus on the things that we can control and change.
“We have a choice. Either to be angry for what we don’t have, or be thankful for what we do have.”- Nick Vujicic
If we have a grateful attitude, we will never fail to find a reason to be thankful for everyday. We will always see the good in a bad circumstance or situation. We have more appreciation for life because we find joy in even the simplest things.
I’ve written more about this topic on my blog entitled To be Happy, be Grateful
“Two biggest barriers to you fulfilling your purpose in life is Envy and People-pleasing.”- Rick Warren
We can never be truly happy if we are always wishing to be someone else or be like someone else; nor can we be happy pretending to be someone else just to belong or feel accepted. Why? because trying to be like someone we’re not prevents us from reaching our full potentials. We need to know ourselves- embrace our strengths and accept our limitations. This way, we can truly be at peace with ourselves and be happy with who we are.
“People inspire you, or they drain you. Pick them wisely.”- Hans Hansen
The people that you are with can affect how you look at yourself and the world around you. If you stay in the company of negative people- those who always whine and complain about their lives, blame other people of their misfortunes, and always see the obstacles in reaching their goals- tendency is, you become one of them. As the saying goes, birds of the same feathers flock together. So fly with the optimistic guys- be with the happy, vibrant and successful people. They are the ones who give a positive influence in your life.
I hope you’ll consider these and experience a happier life! 🙂
Date Written: May 31, 2016